FRIENDSHIP ROLE
Having established a fact in our last publication that God is the first criteria to a perfect friendship. Lets see the kind of friends you got to have around or cultivate as someone who as accepted God’s sovereignty. Friends are vital and they can be destiny facilitators or mutilators. You must know that the kind of friends you cultivate affect a great percentage of you and says a great deal about you and what you believe in. show me your friend and I will tell you who you are. Here are some roles vital friends play in each others life:
Builders: they are those who always push towards the finish line, they are great motivators; they continually invest in your development and genuinely want you to be successful. They are always ahead of you one way or the other.
Champions: they stand up for you and what you believe in, they are proud of you, they cannot tolerate dishonesty, and they are like your advocate.
Collaborators: they are friends with similar interest; they share the passion with you. They are called kindred spirit.
Companion: they are always there for you, they share the bond that is virtually unbreakable. They are the first set of people you call when something happens to you, either good or bad. They sense where you are heading to, your thought, your actions, what is happening to you even before you know it, they watch you back. Don’t keep secret from them, if you do it will erode trust.
Connectors: they are bridge builder, who gets you what you want. They get to know you and introduce you to others, you socialize with them regularly, they invite you to gathering where you can meet new people, they give you access to new found resources and ultimately, they connect you to destiny.
See you next month for more on friendship role.
Adigun Taiwo
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